?Hey everyone, this is Mike from NYC. I've been quiet here for a bit - I lost my big brother recently. He moved to Belgium a decade ago, chasing his dreams and he loved every minute of it. We didn't share the same zip code, but he was always just a phone call away. We were oceans apart, yet closer than ever.

?I'm not one for prayer or religious rituals, but I believe in the power of memory and love. I believe in keeping my brother alive in my heart, in the stories we share about him, in the laughter and tears that come when we remember his quirks.

I've found solace in a digital memorial service. It's a space where we can share memories, photos, stories - it's a space where my brother is alive, in the same way he was alive when he was here with us. A space where he can be remembered, not just by me, but by all those who loved him, near and far.

In the end, it's not about religion or beliefs, it's about love and connection. And I'm grateful for this little corner of the internet where we can keep that connection alive. Because while my brother might have left this world, he's still very much here, in my heart and in the hearts of those who loved him.